What people baby baptism gifts? According to etiquette expert Emily Post, "The gift of baptism standard is a silver goblet, bowl, or a knife, fork and spoon, marked usually with the baby's name and that of the donor." Times may have changed since this sentence was written in 1922, and although the choice of what to buy has expanded, the decision has not become easier.
Baptisms, or modern, secular ceremonies naming, are required to welcome a new baby in a church or family. A christening or naming ceremony is an important moment in someone's life, and most people have a memory or memories to remind them that they were baptized or named in the first place. But what the guests at these ceremonies, especially the sponsors or mentors choose to give baptism baby gifts today? Should we continue to follow the Victoria formula "something useful silver or religious values" - Gift with traditional values, or can you plug it with something more modern and less formal without offending or feeling we have fallen short of our sponsors rights "on Day 1.
There is no doubt that the egg has a traditional silver, cutlery, hairbrushes and napkin rings are always welcome and may be the beginning of a new collection of family heirlooms, but rather than slavishly follow the donations which have been donated since the Victorian era, why not ring the changes in the twenty-first century. There is no real limit to what kind of gifts to choose from, that it is not "traditional" does not allow significant or least personal, but you used your knowledge of parents to provide the child a gift that may be more closely follows their perspectives and aspirations for your baby.
Exchange silver cross necklace for a pair of "Mom and Me" bracelets or obligation to contribute to a piggy bank. If you're feeling particularly generous you can even build a case of vintage port for the baby - with the condition he opened the first bottle with you!
Or, rather than giving money traditional "pusher and spoon" Flatware Set, you can buy a sterling silver fork chip instead - it is sure to smile and is perfect for a child who will do everything in style.
But if you believe that forks are not smart "quite the thing, then you might consider a silver dog collar tag, a tooth fairy box, photo frame or even to name a Quaich four solutions that bridge the gap between old and modern.
But if money is not traditional for you, then what about a nice wooden box customized memory, a diary of presentation of the baby's birth date, or a picture frame containing a special memory?
The choice of gifts is endless, but most importantly, the gift must be one that will last, and can be looked back 21 years by the "baby". In our throwaway society "modern" tradition of the baptism of donations must be maintained even if the type of donation has radically changed. Christening gifts must be made to last, because everyone has memories.
Posted on February 14, 2010.