The birth of your baby The first steps of your journey to parenthood are now complete. Before you is a shorter, but not necessarily easier to push the point that baby. Together at last, you'll meet your new baby.
Dealing with the second stage
When your baby is gradually pushed down your birth canal, try to use gravity as much as possible to help keep the far right as you can. Get yourself to what ever position feels most comfortable, he can sit on the bed, crouched on the mat with the support of your partner, leaning against a chair, being on all fours, or using a birthing stool. Your partner and provider of healthcare can follow your example. Between contractions, use your breathing techniques, in particular, Noor let your pelvis, rectum and anus relax.
Coronation
Your doctor will tell you when your baby's head appears at the vaginal opening is what is called the crown. Listen to your doctor, she will tell you when to push and when to relax. If you take your time and let your vagina stretch slowly, you can avoid a tear. Once baby's head crowns, your partner can show you by holding a mirror is a great encouragement, because you know that your baby will be born soon.
Episiotomy
An episiotomy is a surgical incision of the perineum which helps to allow the baby's head to pass through. Over time, you may not need, but if it is felt, you should have one, the doctor will ask your permission to do this procedure that crowns the top of your baby. It is more common to have an episiotomy with a baby first because the opening of the vagina may be less elastic and you are more likely to tear. Episiotomies are performed if your baby is very large, is in the seat position, or if you need assistance with forceps or vacuum. If you have not had an epidural and pelvic floor muscles will be numbed first with an injection of local anesthetic. Then the tissues of the vagina, and the underlying muscle, are cut at the height of a contraction to extend the opening. The incision is sutured after the placenta has been delivered.
Delivery
The head is the widest part of your baby, gradually emerge, and the doctor will make sure the cord is not around the neck and clear fluid from the mouth and throat. The doctor will ask you to pant, not push, at this stage, then with the next contraction, she gently turn the baby so that the shoulders may emerge one at a time, and the rest of your baby's body will slide: the Pushing contractions cease immediately and you will feel a wonderful sense of liberation. Your baby may or may not scream, moan some babies, some cry vigorously, others begin to breathe without crying.
Meeting your baby
This is the time for which you've waited nine months, when you can take your baby in your arms and for the first time, the moment that will do everything you just went through the trouble. Your physician may be your baby on his stomach or give it to you to hold while the cord is clamped and cut, let your baby feel your skin, keep as close to your face and leave it in search yours. Share this point you are both parents and enjoy it, it is an encounter that will change both your life forever. It is also the time when you ask your new status as parents.
Posted on April 6, 2010.